One of the keys to forming and keeping a great relationship, is to work on yourself first.
If you really want to save your marriage, then it is important that you work on your own self esteem and confidence too.
Having a strong sense of self and a purpose in life, separate from your partner’s, makes everyone see you in a different light… including your spouse.
You need to find your own purpose in life… with or without a partner.
So many women get so lost in their relationship, putting their own needs on hold, to the point where they no longer even know what they really want any more.
Instead of focusing on all the problems in your marriage… put that all aside for a moment.
Start focusing on yourself…
Think back to the things you used to love to do… before everything got so bad. Think back to the dreams or goals you once had. It doesn’t have to be big things… sometimes it’s just small, simple things that you used to love.
Find something… and make it your mission to really get stuck in and do something for yourself.
Whether it be getting back to an old hobby, finally deciding to lose that extra weight, getting a better job or going back to school!
When your husband sees your new self confidence… you will suddenly become a more attractive and desirable person to him. Confidence exudes sexiness…
When you work on becoming the person that you really want to be… not only will you make yourself feel a whole lot better, you become a more attractive person to all those around you.
Other people, your partner included, will treat you differently.
The more confident you become… the more you will find, that you don’t want to be in a toxic relationship any more. You will realize that you can be okay… with or without a partner.
And at the same time… not only will you be more attractive to your husband, he will also realize that he’d better get his own act together if he wants to keep you interested in him.