How To Fix Your Marriage And Stop A Divorce

Whether it’s infidelity, lost passion, financial problems or anything else you can think of, the video below has helped thousands of couples re-build loving and fulfilling relationships.

If you want to stop a divorce or break-up and learn how to fix your marriage or relationship, you need to watch the video below right now.

If you’ve ever felt rejected and alone in your marriage, or you find your spouse’s behavior confusing… then you really MUST watch this video right away…

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It’s important to watch the complete video from start to finish, so you fully understand the relationship saving concepts.

Right now, the future of your marriage is in your hands. If you do nothing… your relationship will most likely end. If you do the wrong thing… it will most likely end too.

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Immediate Steps To Start Saving Your Marriage

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No matter how bad things have become, in your marriage, there are immediate steps you can take to start saving your marriage

1. Call A Truce

Swallow your pride and tell your partner that you would like to try and make your marriage work… together. Make a decision that you will both call a truce, calm down and think things through.

2. Give Each Other Space

After you have agreed, that you want to call a truce and try to make your relationship work… it is best to give each other some space for a while… to sort things out in your own minds. Wait until you both feel you are able to talk and approach your problems calmly and rationally.

3. Agree To Disagree

Once you do sit down to talk things through… it is important that up front… you both agree to hear what the other one has to say before you express disagreement. You also need to understand that sometimes you may never come together on a point of view, but at the very least you need to respect each others opinions and sometimes you just have to agree to disagree. Having a good relationship with someone doesn’t mean you always have to agree with them on everything… it’s okay to disagree sometimes.

4. Identify The Real Problems

You both need to be honest and make an effort to identify the real issues in your marriage. The blow ups and arguments, are often over little things and not the real problems. Resentment builds up over time, with all the unresolved issues. You need to get to the bottom of everything. You need to get it all out into the open, if you really want to move forward with your relationship.

Most counselors agree that the three main areas that cause problems in relationships are sex, money and children. This gives you a good idea of areas to start looking at.

5. Listen To Your Partner

Stay calm and practice talking less and listening more. By listening to their words… even though you might not agree… you’ll be sending the message that you really want to understand. Also, notice his expressions and body language. They’ll offer many clues, to what he’s really feeling.

6. Be Patient

It’s highly unlikely that one conversation, or meeting, will put your relationship back on track immediately… it will however be a step in the right direction. You may never reach a complete understanding. Be patient with the process and keep in mind what you want the end result to be.

7. Be Ready To Compromise

You and your partner are probably not going to agree on everything you want to happen. At this point, try to find a compromise that you can both live with… without letting go of your own morals or beliefs.

8. Get Some Outside Help

Try and find someone outside of your relationship that you can talk to… whether it be a trusted friend, a family member, a priest or  counselor.  Even if your partner refuses to get help, you yourself may benefit by having an objective person to talk to.

However… as I mentioned in a previous article, 5 Signs Of A Troubled Marriage, counseling isn’t for everyone. If you really aren’t comfortable with the idea of talking to someone… then you need to look at other options because you can’t just do nothing. If you don’t do anything, nothing will change. If you do the wrong things, the situation will get worse.

For more ideas about how to tackle your relationship problems and rebuild the intimacy with your partner, here’s a great video to steer you in the right direction starting now :

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In this video you will discover there are things you can do to start saving your marriage even if you are the only one interested in fixing things!

 

How To Save Your Marriage By Starting With Yourself

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One of the keys to forming and keeping a great relationship, is to work on yourself first.

If you really want to save your marriage, then it is important that you work on your own self esteem and confidence too.

Having a strong sense of self and a purpose in life, separate from your partner’s, makes everyone see you in a different light… including your spouse.

You need to find your own purpose in life… with or without a partner.

So many women get so lost in their relationship, putting their own needs on hold, to the point where they no longer even know what they really want any more.

Sound familiar?

Instead of focusing on all the problems in your marriage… put that all aside for a moment.

Start focusing on yourself…

Think back to the things you used to love to do… before everything got so bad. Think back to the dreams or goals you once had. It doesn’t have to be big things… sometimes it’s just small, simple things that you used to love.

Find something… and make it your mission to really get stuck in and do something for yourself.

Whether it be getting back to an old hobby, finally deciding to lose that extra weight, getting a better job or going back to school!

When your husband sees your new self confidence… you will suddenly become a more attractive and desirable person to him. Confidence exudes sexiness…

When you work on becoming the person that you really want to be… not only will you make yourself feel a whole lot better, you become a more attractive person to all those around you.

Other people, your partner included, will treat you differently.

The more confident you become… the more you will find, that you don’t want to be in a toxic relationship any more. You will realize that you can be okay… with or without a partner.

And at the same time… not only will you be more attractive to your husband, he will also realize that he’d better get his own act together if he wants to keep you interested in him.

 

5 Signs Your Marriage Is In Trouble

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If any of these warning signs are apparent in your marriage, it’s time to take action as soon as possible… before your marriage is damaged beyond repair.

1. You no longer have fun with each other

You just don’t laugh or have any fun together anymore. When you do go out together, neither of you has any fun and you just wish you hadn’t even bothered going out at all.

2. Compliments are rare or non existent

You very rarely compliment each other these days. On the contrary, criticisms are on the increase. You feel unappreciated and can feel yourself withdrawing from the marriage.

3. You’re happier when your spouse is gone

The only time you can truly relax is when your spouse is not at home and you can enjoy being yourself. As soon as he leaves the house you breath a sigh of relief and when he arrives home, you tense up and withdraw again.

4. A lack of intimacy or sexual activity

This is a sure sign your marriage is in deep trouble and you are really disconnected from each other. It could also indicate an affair. Often when someone is having an affair, they will no longer express any intimacy within the marriage… out of a sense of loyalty to the person they are cheating with.

5. You no longer discuss any kind of future or long term goals

This is another sure sign that your marriage is in strife. When you are no longer planning and looking ahead, it is a sign that either one or both of you are feeling hopeless about the future. How do you look ahead when you are feeling depressed with what is going on right now?

If these things sound familiar to you, it’s time to get help.

Reach out and talk to a family member or friend if you can. Let someone know that your marriage is in trouble and that you could do with some help. You may find it helpful to talk to a marriage counselor.

I know that not everyone can afford, or even wants, marriage counseling. But you must do something… and there are alternatives.

If you really feel like you can’t, or don’t want to, talk to anyone… you can get help online and work through things on your own.

This is a great place to start… if you go and watch the video here right now:  How To Fix Your Marriage And Stop A Divorce you will learn how you can start re building your relationship TODAY (Even if you’re the only one who wants to fix things)